C'est La Vie

C'est la vie is a French saying, meaning: "That's life".

Hey! I've just got home from school today, oh this week is really hectic and hard for me because exam already begin. hmm, ok back to topic. When I've just got home, I realize one thing I used to ignore. Some individuals, are capable or choose to be able to hide their feelings instead of showing them. And the better they hide it, the more fragile will they become.

The point is, perhaps you are considered as a kind and a strong human being within your pack of friends, because you don't say things much and you mostly just listen and people love being around you because you don't talk about your feelings all the time and put them in suffer of thinking of a way to help you out, but you better realize; and better now, that not speaking up the truth won't hurt others, but it's hurting you from within.

Now the question is.. who do you care more? Your friends? Or yourself?

I think you should care more about yourself. That sentence has nothing to do with being selfish.

Know this.. the better you take care of yourself, the better you can take care of others. The better you consider yourself valuable, the better you value people. And the better you put love into your life, the better love you can put into others.

It sucks. I know. Sometimes all you want to do is be a good friend and being selfish aren't exactly buying you the money in the bank, but ask again.. 

Would you want someone who doesn't care about who you really are, forbid you from being true to yourself?

Perhaps these friends aren't true friends at all. Life doesn't suck. Life is complicated. Suck is an absolute state of mind.

But complicated has a way.

C'est la vie.